I Love My Father-in-law More Than My Husband...... ((top))

It is important to distinguish between a healthy emotional bond and romantic attraction. If the feelings are romantic or sexual, it is considered "not normal" for the family structure and could lead to significant heartbreak for everyone involved. 2. Evaluate the Source of the Disparity

You may be comparing apples to oranges:

Your father-in-law loves you conditionally only on one thing: that you love his son and his grandchildren. As long as that box is checked, he likely accepts you entirely. He isn't trying to change your habits, your weight, or your career path. Your husband, however, is your intimate partner. He has a vested interest in changing you. He wants you to be happier, thinner, richer, or more organized. That pressure erodes intimacy. The FIL offers a vacation from self-improvement. I love my father-in-law more than my husband......

If scores are low, the problem isn’t FIL — it’s the marriage. It is important to distinguish between a healthy